That is a good question, how do you get your ex girlfriend to love you again? There is a way but you have to be sure that it is what you want. You have to be absolutely sure you want her back or what I have to say will not work for you.
For starters you have to be sincere, honest and determined to do what it takes without losing your own identity. To get your ex girlfriend to love you again you got to have a strategy. Ask yourself a few questions.
- Why did we break up?
- What did I do to cause this break up?
- Could I have prevented this break up and how?
- Would I take myself back after what happened?
- Why did she love me?
- Can I be that guy again or have I changed to much?
- How can I get my ex girlfriend to love me again?
Once you have done this and answered the questions honestly and decided it is worth to try again you have to take the next step. That is to find out how she feels about you at this moment. If there is no chance in hell that she ever wants to see or speak to you then I really feel sorry for you. But if there is the slightest possibility that she does want to speak to you or would like to see you again even as a friend than you have a fighting chance to win her over.
The best approach to start with is the casual-friend approach. This is simple to do as long as you can keep your feelings in check and under no circumstance talk about the relationship or where it went wrong. This is much easier if you take her to a place where you have to be active like bowling or shooting pool. You have to make sure the both of you are really into the activity, this will decrease any chance of talking about the relationship and increase the chance of her seeing you in a different light and maybe even remembering why she fell in love with you in the first place.